Stay out

Sexuality, the forbidden fruit. Naughty, no no, nasty. Why do nasty boys and girls have all the fun? While nice guys finish last. And did you hear the one about... What's the difference between a nice girl and a good girl?

Ladies, if you had to choose between being a good mother or a sexy bitch, which sounds more appealing.

Fellas, if you had to choose between being filthy rich or being a hot sex stud, which way would you want to go.

Why do we have to make choices like these? Can't we have it all? Sexuality is not meant to be restricted to small places of predetermined, outmoded notions. Human beings are created as sexual beings. Take a look at the ways we frame sex in general as a society, and as individuals. We seem to want to confine sexuality to a certain narrow restrictive perspective. Many seek to remove it entirely from it's nature as a spiritual expression and make it purely physical and shameful.

How many ways have we have built fences that say STAY OUT to real sex? We are literally yelling at our sexuality to STAY AWAY, keep quiet. Roping it off, excluding sex from almost every aspect of our lives except for a "dirty" "private" few minutes behind closed doors.

How many people ever received sexual training, of any kind? We offer all kinds of training and education, except sexual. Let's see, sexuality is probably one of the more important parts about being human. We need to find ways to invite sexuality into our lives and nurture it so it grows. Where are the teachers and coaches, classes and workshops that can help people get in shape and stay in shape. True sexuality, Great Sex, is so utterly out of reach to an alarming number of people.

So much hardship comes from sexual dysfunction, and sex related crimes. How much research is going into exploring human sexual health and vitality. Where are the sexology departments in our universities? Where are the sexual healing clinics in our communities?

Great sex relies on the following main ingredients:

• Physical Fitness
• Emotional Fidelity
• Mental clarity
• Spiritual Focus

Each person needs to find their own balance and blend of these key ingredients. As a community we need to allow for the promotion and teaching of useful expression of our sexual nature.

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